Im lost on my xy offsets

so i installed the micro swiss dd and hotend on linear rail today. prints fine but the x and y are all wrong. i loaded the ender 3+bl touch bin on marlin site. the x axis homes to center. PERFECT! but. y axis is 17mm to far forward. i ove it where it should be and then hit set home offsets, beeps and tells me error to far.

plz someone help

ok…and why is it probing the bed in 25 places? im ok with 9. but 25 is way to many